FROM CONTROL TO CONNECTION

A 4-week Relationship Reset

For the high-achieving, hyper-independent woman who keeps attracting relationships where she gives everything and still feels unseen.

tired of feeling unseen in relationships?

You’re not imagining it.

You’ve mastered independence.
You know how to run a household, a career, a crisis — all at the same time.
Everyone relies on you because you make it look easy.

But here’s the part no one sees:

In your relationships—romantic, friendships, family, even work—you’re the one doing the emotional heavy lifting.

You anticipate everyone’s needs.
You manage the moods, the schedules, the conversations.
You give more than you get.

And then you sit there wondering why you feel alone in a life filled with people.

You tell yourself you’re fine on your own.
You’re not.
You’re just used to being the one who carries it.

Relationship Reset is for the strong, self-aware woman who’s tired of repeating the same pattern—being the reliable one, the responsible one, the one who “doesn’t need anything”…
and then feeling resentful when it’s never reciprocated.

What you'll learn:

WEEK 1 — The Pattern of Control

You’ll uncover the roots of why you take charge, why you don’t trust others to show up and why independence feels safer than being vulnerable.

WEEK 2 — Boundaries & Emotional Safety

This week teaches how to communicate what you need, without guilt or fear of rejection and how to stop confusing boundaries with with pushing people away.

WEEK 3 — Communication & Power Dynamics

Uncover why you keep ending up in one-sided relationships, why you’re “too much” in your head and how to break the cycle of resentment.

WEEK 4 — Redefining Love & Support

You’ll practice new ways of relating rooted in honesty, vulnerability, and mutual respect and how to receive without feeling like you’re giving up control.

By the end of the 4 weeks you will know:

What's included?

pre-recorded coaching calls

4 weeks of recorded calls where we discuss the teachings and receive coaching and guidance.

Self-paced resources

You’ll receive access to the courses teachings, pre-recorded content and PDF’s to support you throughout and after the program.

Supportive community

Laurie has cultivated a powerful and supportive community. Communicate with that community via Skool and feel supported right away.

This isn’t about becoming less independent. It’s about learning how to let people in without feeling like you’re losing yourself in the process.

walk away with...

insight into your patterns + attachment styles

Clarity on the subconscious beliefs that shaped your relationship patterns

Self regulation & communication skills

Tools to communicate and set boundaries from self-trust instead of fear. It’s easy to feel lost when you don’t have structured, guided practices to help you build your spiritual connection over time. 

A deeper understanding of how to feel emotionally safe in connection

The ability to receive love and support without guilt or over-functioning

4-Week Relationship Reset

Full access

$ 199 CAD
  • Full Session Recordings
  • 4 Step-by-Step Modules to Guide You
  • Access to a Supportive Community Platform
  • Full Access To Pre-Recorded Course Curriculum
  • A Library of Guided Meditations & Workbooks

What Past clients are saying our work...

Meet Your Guide

For years, Laurie thought that being strong meant doing it all herself. After losing her mother and navigating burnout, she realized control wasn’t safety—it was self-protection. Now, she helps high-achieving women unlearn that same pattern, so they can experience real connection without losing themselves.

Today, she shares her wisdom through various platforms, including workshops, retreats, and online courses.

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Wild soul rising podcast

with laurie oakes

For the woman who’s done with surface-level answers.

Real conversations about the parts of the human experience we don’t talk about enough—burnout, identity, grief, intuition, and what it actually takes to come back to yourself.

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